Tahlia Suraj

Getting a chin-length blunt bob for the first time in my adult life felt far bigger than a haircut. It felt like a quiet yet decisive shift, one that changed not just how I look, but how I move through everyday life. Here are 5 things I learnt from getting a bob, and why I believe every woman should experience it at least once in her lifetime.

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1. Instant confidence boost

Ever since I got the blunt bob, two things have been happening constantly.

First, there’s an almost permanent smile on my face. I find myself looking at my reflection more often, and in the process, I’ve learned to love and accept myself a lot more.

Second, my confidence has increased at least tenfold.

The sheer finesse and polish it brings to my face has convinced me that I’ve stepped into a new version of myself—an unapologetic baddie in town. And I am loving every bit of this feeling.

I loved myself before too. I just love myself a lot more now.

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2. Less maintenance

I genuinely cannot believe how many years I spent maintaining long hair.

The oiling, the prep, the shampooing, conditioning, drying, and styling—it all added up to so much time and effort. Since getting a bob, my routine has simplified dramatically.

It takes minutes to wash and condition. It dries quickly. And given my hair texture (silky straight), it requires little to no styling at all. It naturally falls into place, effortlessly chic, which brings me to the next point.

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3. It adds polish to outfits

Every outfit I wear now looks more expensive and deliberate.

Even the most basic combinations feel elevated. The bob creates an illusion of effort and elegance, making the entire look appear intentional and well thought out. It’s fascinating how a haircut alone can transform the way clothes are perceived.

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4. You look younger

For reasons I didn’t fully anticipate, the bob makes me look noticeably younger.

It adds freshness and lightness to my appearance. Yet paradoxically, despite looking more youthful, I also appear more sophisticated and mature in character. It’s a rare balance of soft yet strong, fresh yet refined.

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5. People perceive you differently

This one surprised me the most.

Without saying a word, people seem to perceive me differently now. There’s an unspoken shift in how I’m received. I’m often seen as more confident, charismatic, and grounded.

It’s interesting how a haircut can subtly communicate self-assurance and clarity before you even introduce yourself.

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If you’re deliberating whether to get a bob cut, this has been my experience. These are the 5 things I learnt from getting a bob.

Sometimes, a haircut isn’t just about hair, it’s about how clearly you choose yourself.